On gigs and being an average violinist
In conjunction with my new motto of saying "NO" to gig offers in order to preserve some of my sanity and enjoy family/home life, I've already turned down an awesome gig that pays well (which I did last year), incredibly easy music and actually doesn't take up too much time...but the catch is that it's for Midnight Mass at a large Catholic church across town on Christmas Eve. Now, I remember last year--when I pretty much said 'yes' to every single gig that was thrown my way--I was running around like a crazy person, grumbling under my breath about how much driving I was doing and how I wished I could just be at home cooking dinner or hanging with the family. The Christmas Eve gig, in particular, was rough; the plan was for me to drive immediately afterwards to my in-laws, about an hour and a half away, to spend Christmas day with them. Ryan was supposed to get a head start ahead of me, but it turned out that he got sick (started throwing up before I lef...